I know it’s not Thanksgiving, but one of the things I’m most thankful for on this Valentine’s Day is that I have a wife who loves to play golf – maybe even more than I do sometimes! I introduced her to the game about a year and-a-half ago, and now she’s hooked.
Not to brag, but I think her swing is way ahead of schedule. Despite only having played for about 18 months or so, she gets onto her left side about as well as anyone. At a recent lesson, her instructor told her she had a finish as good as any he’s ever seen. She doesn’t hit it that far yet, bet she’s learning how to hit it with a little right to left draw.
Our love of golf pairs nicely with our love of the outdoors. We agree that some of the world’s prettiest outdoor settings can be found out on the manicured beauty of the golf course.
The only reason I bring any of this up is because a few days ago, PGA Tour Experiences sent out an article validating a theory that I’ve had for some time now: swinging with your sweetie makes for a healthy marriage. If she’s good, well, that’s just a bonus.
Why Couples Who Play Together, Stay Together
By Kristen Kemp
pgatourexperiences.com
With Valentine’s Day just around the corner we’re bringing you the top three reasons why couples who play together, stay together. If your relationship is on the decline and could use a boost or you’re just looking for even more ways to learn something new with your special someone, implement these three tips and you’re sure to be on the road to a stronger (and more fun) relationship.
It’s Challenging
Relationships face all kinds of challenges on a daily basis – financially, emotionally and professionally. Being supportive of your spouse through challenges applies to both the times spent in the rough and the times spent on the green. Whether your spouse is trying to score a birdie on a Par 3 or learning how to simply “hit it straight” – challenges forge a pathway toward achievement.
Through support and being their No. 1 fan (and with a little help from our TOURAcademy instructors) your spouse will be well on their way to a “hole in one.”
It’s Rewarding
Be honest – was there ever a moment when you didn’t experience personal satisfaction in someone telling you “Good work,” or “Awesome job?” It’s amazing how far a simple word of encouragement can go – and the same applies in relationships.
When your spouse scores the birdie on the Par 3 or finally “hits it straight,” be sure to let them know how great they did. No one likes to work hard for something they don’t get recognized for – especially women!
It’s FUN!
One of the most common misconceptions about golf is that it can be boring, especially for those who are beginners to the game – when in reality, golf can be a very FUN sport! By creating simple 1 on 1 competitions with your spouse like “Closest to the Pin” on a Par 3 or “Trouble,” in which the goal is to avoid the bunkers at hazards – the opportunities for laughter and good memories are endless. Having fun with your significant other is one of the most important fundamentals of any relationship and a full proof path to happiness.